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Inspired by a comment elsewhere I ask the question - what saved you from being a Dee?
In my case my family were Dees, father, uncles, several cousins, grandfather, and five great-uncles were all frequenters of Dens Park, and steadfastly refused to even visit Tannadice. Something perverse in me made me buck the family tradition, and at the age of seven, and of my own accord, I became a rabid United supporter. In later years I went against the family and refused to become a Freemason.......but that's another story.
Dundee FC was the city's big team for many years, and as a United supporter I became the target of much leg-pulling, and on occasion, a bit of bullying. All my school pals were Dees (fkn glory hunters!) but I remained faithful to my team, and am glad that I did. Not for me all the years of jealousy and bitter hatred against Dundee United!
Now I'm an old man of seventy-nine and in ill health, I live in Leeds and can't get to my beloved Tannadice, but I am still an Arab at heart. I want to thank Tek for persevering with this forum, enabling me to keep in touch with the club of my choice. You're doing a great job, long may it continue.
On reflection, perhaps this post is in the wrong section of the forum? If so please excuse me, I can only plead senility.....
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Lucky for me my family are all United daft so i didn't have a choice to make.
I would have to admit to being a glory hunter. I've never really asked but I think my family were predominantly Dees but most of them played football at a decent level so didn't go to many games. Also had a few relatives that played for United or Dundee.
All I know is that my grandfather took me to Dens and Tannadice and my Dad took me to United's Euro games from the early 80s. I don't really remember making choice as such though.
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My dad was Dee; but typical of most funsters he never went to the games.
As soon as I saw those tangerine shirts there was only one team for me.
Leedsy2 wrote:
Inspired by a comment elsewhere I ask the question - what saved you from being a Dee?
In my case my family were Dees, father, uncles, several cousins, grandfather, and five great-uncles were all frequenters of Dens Park, and steadfastly refused to even visit Tannadice. Something perverse in me made me buck the family tradition, and at the age of seven, and of my own accord, I became a rabid United supporter. In later years I went against the family and refused to become a Freemason.......but that's another story.
Dundee FC was the city's big team for many years, and as a United supporter I became the target of much leg-pulling, and on occasion, a bit of bullying. All my school pals were Dees (fkn glory hunters!) but I remained faithful to my team, and am glad that I did. Not for me all the years of jealousy and bitter hatred against Dundee United!
Now I'm an old man of seventy-nine and in ill health, I live in Leeds and can't get to my beloved Tannadice, but I am still an Arab at heart. I want to thank Tek for persevering with this forum, enabling me to keep in touch with the club of my choice. You're doing a great job, long may it continue.
On reflection, perhaps this post is in the wrong section of the forum? If so please excuse me, I can only plead senility.....
Great post Leedsy & I wish you well. I love how you put the question 'What saved you from being a Dee?' cos it's so relevant, that's what it boils down to, becoming a Dee can happen.
My story is very similar to yours, thank heaven I too bucked the trend. It was the best decision I ever made & I'm not being glib.
Following from a distance is difficult but can make the passion stronger. I can't make Dumfries tomorrow either but when the final whistle goes at 4.50 I so hope we've won & we should dedicate our victory to Leedsy2.
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Leedsy2 wrote:
Inspired by a comment elsewhere I ask the question - what saved you from being a Dee?
In my case my family were Dees, father, uncles, several cousins, grandfather, and five great-uncles were all frequenters of Dens Park, and steadfastly refused to even visit Tannadice. Something perverse in me made me buck the family tradition, and at the age of seven, and of my own accord, I became a rabid United supporter. In later years I went against the family and refused to become a Freemason.......but that's another story.
Dundee FC was the city's big team for many years, and as a United supporter I became the target of much leg-pulling, and on occasion, a bit of bullying. All my school pals were Dees (fkn glory hunters!) but I remained faithful to my team, and am glad that I did. Not for me all the years of jealousy and bitter hatred against Dundee United!
Now I'm an old man of seventy-nine and in ill health, I live in Leeds and can't get to my beloved Tannadice, but I am still an Arab at heart. I want to thank Tek for persevering with this forum, enabling me to keep in touch with the club of my choice. You're doing a great job, long may it continue.
On reflection, perhaps this post is in the wrong section of the forum? If so please excuse me, I can only plead senility.....
Can't match your start date Leedsy, but my dad took me along to Tannadice when I was about 8. I've got a memory of being held up to stand on the railings of the new (now Jery Kerr) stand before it had opened. I think we beat the neighbours 2-1.
Even when they won the league, my pals and me never thought of supporting them. Bear in mind this was when people went to Tannadice one week and Dens the next. I was at all their European Cup home games, saw them beat Cologne 8-1 (they lost their keeper - before substitutes), saw them beat Inter Milan. Watched that team with cox, Ure Gilzean et al and never considered supporting them. Even got taken by my dad and all his mates from Timex to their Hampden final - massive crowd - made no difference. We were United supporters.
My dad was a man of few words, so it wasn't a case of indocrination.
I can only think that for the lucky ones all things United was our Lingua Franca.
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My Grandad was a United supporter, he took me everywhere when I was a nipper. He was not one who went to dens every 2nd week he had a commendable dislike of all things dark blue. He claimed he saw his 1st United match in 1925. Ive a lot to thank the man for. 8th Dec 1979 was the only time I saw him cry. R.I.P. Bert.
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Not really an answer to the question but I was raised a Celtic fan by my auld man who never ever went to Celtic games (imagine that). Thankfully my grandad on my mums side stepped in when eh was 9 and took me along to Tannadice and got me a season ticket wi him. Took a season to wash off the mouldy green association but thank f*** he took me, couldna imagine how eh would've turned out being one of the great unwashed.
So although I never needed to be saved from being a Dee, I arguably could've had an even worse fate.
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Its a strange one for me. I come from a family who didn't show any passion for football...to this day I cant actually say which team my dad supported...if any. I'm of the generation that grew up with UTD on the ascendancy (1980s) and along with the vivid tangerine colours I was drawn in. What finally got me hooked was the casual thing. I started going to games along with all the other trendy types and absolutely loved the passion. Standing on the terraces with all your mates, showing off the latest fashions and defending your turf. Yep. That's what got me hooked. I sit with the same guys and we still all dress pretty trendily...we don't run about like maniacs anymore, but I reckon we're still the top boys
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Fae Montrose originally there were 3 main options Hun, Tim or Sheep. There was a very small band of Arabs and I started school in 83 so was drawn in by the legendary team and loved the tangerine tops so that was that!
My dad liked hearts (Christ knows why) but wasn't a real supporter of any club which allowed me to chose my own path
Started going to the games when I turned 8 and was hooked fae that first game which was the 1-0 win over the Huns with a ferguson goal which I can still vividly remember to this day.
I love Utd and wouldn't change that for the world, my son of 6 is a season ticket holder with me and I am loving getting him into something that will give him some of the best days of his life, hopefully we can share then together. Took my old man with us for the Raith game a few weeks back and it was 3 generations which filled my heart with joy!
My faither was a Dee but my Grandfaither was the one who started taking me to games and thank fuck he was an Arab.
Funny enough my old man ended up s United season ticket holder so a double happy ending
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As a 10 year old from a non-footballing family, a pal introduced me to the sneaky-in at both grounds. Although I saw Gilzean, Penman, Ure, Hammy, Charlie Cooke, etc at Dens, the view from down below ground level and across the dog track for a wee boy wasn't great - much better high up on the terracing where the George Fox is now and the atmosphere in the shed was brilliant as well. In those days fans had freedom to move about and change ends at half-time. Once I saw Doug (Smith), Denis, Donald, Gunboat (Briggs) and Co in action there was no contest - I became a Terror and later I even started paying to watch them.